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4-Session Counseling Series:
Crossing Cultures While Approaching the Wedding

  • Effectively communicate about your cultural, racial and/or religious differences
  • Identify the aspects of your heritage that are important to you
  • Incorporate your traditions and beliefs into your relationship and your future family
  • Deal with your differences directly in order to create a strong foundation for marriage

Interfaith Couples: Interfaith couples often experience even more intense emotional pulls from their families during wedding preparation. Feelings of loss, especially for parents, are heightened and anxiety around future family unity looms large. These counseling sessions will help you to clarify your religious and spiritual values, communicate more effectively and to steer clear of power struggles and conflicts with parents and future in-laws.

Intercultural Couples: Are you from an individualist culture and your fiance from a collectivist culture?  This is likely to produce dramatically different expectations on the role of the extended family in the wedding experience.  Additionally, different cultural communication styles, more verbal or more non-verbal, can be a painful source of misunderstandings around wedding planning. These counseling sessions will help you to identify divergent cultural values, to become aware of the impact they have on the relationship, and to learn how to integrate differences into your relationship in a healthy way.

To learn more about this unique counseling series, contact Julia Kantor.

Other Engagement Counseling Services & Resources

  • For Parents of the Bride/Groom - Julia also offers private counseling sessions for parents of the bride and/or groom who are also going through a transition and might be having difficulty letting go and accepting a new person into the family. Contact Julia for more information.
     
  • 4-Session Engagement Counseling Series - Learn how to transform wedding-related tensions to into a greater connection and gain lifelong communication techniques.
     
  • Understanding Wedding Stress: A published article by Julia P. Kantor that provides helpful hints for dealing with the wedding stress.